Her parents, who had both been teachers in Nigeria, had to retrain when they moved here, her father working nights as a security guard to put food on the table. He is now a teacher for children with special needs, while her mother is training to be a Tube driver. There was never much money and with three children - Helen has a sister, Mary, 15, and a brother, Tony, six - sharing a rented two-bedroom flat, it was lucky that they are all extremely close. This was compounded by the discovery when he was four years old that Tony is profoundly autistic. "We had seen it coming. He was behaving oddly; for instance, his tantrums were unusually bad, and he wouldn't look directly at you, always side on."