Mr Flashman, 25, told Fox News: “Adam Lanza believed she cared more for the children than she did for him, and the reason he probably thought this was the fact that she was petitioning for conservatorship and wanted to have him committed. Adam was apparently very upset about this. He thought she just wanted to send him away. From what I understand, he was really, really angry. I think this could have been it, what set him off.