For the past six years, she’s been visiting Çirali (pronounced chee-ra-lay) on the Lycian Coast in Turkey. Always the same hotel — the Aida — and she’s on first name, present-giving terms with the staff, as they are with her. Two summers ago, my sister and her family followed, then her friends (thus a certain annoying smugness arose, if I’m honest, among “those in the know”).