It was love that originally brought Wainwright to America. He had quit a ‘lucrative but soul-destroying’ telecoms job in London, rented out his flat in Stockwell and gone backpacking to Mexico where he met his now wife, Glenna Neece, who was working there as a model. He followed her back to New York. Today they live in a $6.75m (£5.3m) house in Cobble Hill Historic District, a family-friendly part of brownstone Brooklyn, with their three kids, Noah, 10, Henry, eight, and Cate, five, who are all at a local private school. Neece is now a herbalist who practises reiki. Is he into all that too? ‘Not per se, but I drink what she gives me,’ he says. ‘And I’m getting spiritual in my old age. I meditate.’