Then I ask them to choose a few words that describe how they would like their guests to feel at their wedding. These can be predictable (which isn’t a bad thing) or sometimes they can be really surprising. Romantic, chic, elegant, sexy, informal, fun, sophisticated, classic and cool are some of the regular things couples will say. We have also had raunchy, eccentric, ‘off the wall’ and ‘Victorian gothic’ too, but these are not so common.