So a perfect bum is one that does the job it's supposed to do, perfectly. It's very common that people's bums (glutes) are lazy. This may happen because of postural imbalance/dysfunction and/or external injury from an accident of some kind. Commonly the hamstrings and hip flexors are hyperactive and therefore compensate and end up doing the job that the glutes should be doing.
To achieve a fit bottom at home I would recommend the classic pilates exercise, Lying Leg Circles. It's great for toning, firming and re-shaping the backside, and perfect for checking that the glutes are working properly.