Food is his principal recreation as well as his work. When you ask what he does away from the kitchen, he rhapsodises about Ikeda, the Japanese restaurant on Brook Street - 'Unprepossessing place but it's yum!' - and Sweetings fish and chip restaurant in the City, which is where he proposed to his wife Margot, a New Zealand-born chef who runs the Rochelle Canteen in East London (he is so uxorious that his friend, the choreographer Michael Clark, calls the couple 'Fergot and Margus'). He is also a fixture at The Groucho Club but shrinks from showing off about his social life or his friends, who, as well as the (not so young) YBA crowd, include numerous fellow chefs such as Jamie Oliver, Giorgio Locatelli and America's fiery offal-eater Anthony Bourdain, who calls Fergus 'the most influential chef in the world'. While quarrelling with each other, they seem to be united only in their admiration for him. 'I don't have time for feuds,' says Fergus, 'I don't have a feud in me.'
The couple live in his parents' former flat in Covent Garden with their three 'galumphing' children, Hector, 17, Owen, 15, and Frances, 11. You might assume that he has brought them up eating duck hearts and sucking the marrow from bones but he says that they eat a great deal of pasta because he likes grocery shopping at Camisa, the Italian delicatessen on Old Compton Street. 'I had this fantasy that I would introduce them to langoustines and we'd all sit around a huge table like something out of a Francis Ford Coppola film, but it doesn't work like that. They get bored and want to go off with their mates. But Frances is my great hope,' he says. 'She asked me to take her to The Fat Duck just after Christmas and she sat there for four hours. She loved it.'