It's said she is an enigma because she stays with Jeffrey, but for me there's no mystery. It's easier not to leave him. She has the status of being the wife of a peer, albeit a discredited one, able to call herself Lady. She has access to a huge fortune, including, it's believed, the British royalties from her husband's books. Without him she would not have been sought-after for "great and good" bodies, for parties, for photographers. She doubtless enjoys her husband's company, the fact that life is never boring, and she wants a united home for her sons. She's also able to lead her own life, professionally and socially.