By contrast, Banier was born into a middle-class family on which he turned his back when a dark-haired, handsome but sexually confused teenager. Armed with little more than charm, good looks and wit he appears to have insinuated his way into the world of the rich, famous and artistic. He became friends with Salvador Dalí, Pierre Cardin, Yves Saint Laurent, Françoise Sagan, Samuel Beckett and others from the French beau monde.