Focusing on our feet helps dissolve any embarrassment and, by the time I've done two rounds and had my toes trod upon by Ray, Matt and Ed, I'm feeling the rhythm. Our instructor explains how the leader, usually the man, can show the follower what he'll do next by gentle pressure on the back. Upwards means let's kick, downwards is stepping and tapping. Before we all get overwhelmed, the lesson's over and we take our partners by the hand for the live music.