A secretary who claimed an ex-paratrooper pestered her for sex and burst into her room during a "bonding" exercise at a hotel had been bombarding him with "flirtatious" emails, an employment tribunal heard today. Denise Swinton-Mitchell, 37, alleges clerk Rob Reeves became enraged when she spurned him and stormed into her Edinburgh hotel room, saying: "I am trained to kill you and I will kill you."