I don't know about you, but the last thing I want from my lover is an array of "sexy" underwear. I have had enough of black mesh G-strings, satin basques, crotchless knickers, baby-doll nighties or anything that makes me look remotely like a Bunny Girl, pole dancer or vestal virgin. It's just not funny any more. In fact, it's insulting. I blame Agent Provocateur. Because of them, plenty of blokes I know have lost the ability to have an original thought when it comes to buying underwear for their woman. They mistakenly think the slut look is sexy, cool and something they can get away with. Not any more. The backlash has started.