In contrast, Mr Blair, then leader of the Opposition, sent a handwritten note that read: "This is simply to say how much I sympathise for you over Phillip's tragic death. It must have been an appalling shock for you. But his bravery and sacrifice have touched the whole country and I know, amidst the grief, there will be deep and deserving pride." Mr Walters said Mr Howard also failed to show proper respect at the funeral. "He attended my son's funeral unshaven and in a crumpled suit, failed to make any contact with me or my family and when I wrote to him about my son's killer's derisory sentence he never had the decency to acknowledge the letter, let alone reply to it. So shame on him then and shame on him now."