Oliver's father, Kimbeni, 55, is flying from Africa. Other family members visited Patrick, 25, at the Immigration Removal Centre in Dover. He is said to be "destroyed" by the news. His sister, Elodie, 22, added: "My mum and dad are not coping well, losing two sons in six months, it's just too much to take." Barnet manager Paul Fairclough and his players were told about Oliver's death just before the start of the home game against Morecambe on Saturday.