The Marquess of Blandford (Sunny), heir to the 10th Duke of Marlborough and Blenheim Palace, had been a friend since childhood and was always close during her party years. So, too, was a man the princess met in 1947, Colin Tennant. Many believe he was her first real boyfriend. He was heir to Lord Glenconner and took her to his family's 9,000-acre estate, Glen, in Peebleshire and delighted her with his eccentric humour. At their first meeting he introduced himself as "2nd Lieutenant Tennant" of the Irish Guards. He remained a friend for life and in 1967, as her marriage to Lord Snowdon disintegrated, he visited her at Kensington Palace. With him was a large-scale map of Mustique, the Caribbean island he had bought years earlier for £45,000. Together they chose an ocean-front, 10-acre building plot which he presented as a gift and on which was built her holiday home Les Jolies Eaux, the only house she ever owned. Lord Plunket was another central figure in the life of the princess in the 1950s. Patrick Plunket was considered a steady young man, impeccably connected and a safe pair of hands. Like all her close friends he signed letters to her with his initials on the bottom righthand corner of the envelope. Staff at Clarence House were instructed not to open mail that bore the initials of friends.