She refused, she said, to accept the potential consequences - which included the possibility of public exposure and the effect on his marriage of 18 years. "I was too excited," she said. The affair was exposed after the owner of the Earl's Court flat, Nick Philp, bugged his own phone and sold the tapes to The People. "The intrusion is like you're sitting there naked and someone is cutting your body up very slowly," said Ms de Sancha. "Why did they [the press] want to give me such a bloody hard time? I had done nothing wrong other than to have an affair with someone who happened to be married. OK, that's not very pleasant, but it wasn't manipulative or vindictive, or a nasty horrible move on my behalf."