When she was 17 and planning to study theatre design at Central Saint Martins, her father was posted to South Africa and refused to leave her to her own devices in London. 'I was too troublesome,' she admits now. So she studied graphic design at Cape Town University and then, at the earliest opportunity, fled to Paris where she modelled - 'surprising really, as I'm so short, but I do have a symmetrical face' - waitressed and learned to cook at the famous La Varenne school. At 20, she found herself back in England where she met her husband Valentine Guinness, a musician and writer (for a brief time she was a backing singer for his band Panic while he was still at Oxford), scion of the famous brewing family and grandson of Diana Mitford. In 1986, after a six-year courtship, they were married in Winchester Cathedral and now have two daughters Tara, 12, and Madeleine, six.