Above all, the difference this time was that there was no anger and no ugliness. In 1997, shocked and verging on hysteria, the crowds squabbled and refused to clear the roads when police asked. Last night was conducted in a wholly different spirit. Sue Swayles and Jan Sneesby, from Basildon, complained mildly about a rowdy group who had deprived them of sleep. "We brought flasks. They brought cans," they said. Had they said anything? Of course not. They did not want to spoil the Queen Mum's day.