We are talking more than 30 years ago. The content of the event amazed, impressed and frequently flummoxed both of us but it was the ceremonial quality, the attention to beauty and that singularly Japanese virtue, appropriateness, in its every aspect that was the biggest revelation. No longer a kaiseki virgin, I nevertheless remain relatively unschooled in the tradition. In reading it up, or Googling, as we now say, I related to the observation that meals “are conversations chefs have with history and their customers and the structure of kaiseki offers, under the right conditions, an unusually full vocabulary”.