But the times they are a-changing. The chefs who work for me tend to be men, and among my friends, the fellas nearly always pull their weight in the kitchen. Yet millions of people (such as me) have dads who can't make scrambled eggs. Mine calls making toast 'cooking', and only this year, at the age of 70, has he learned to do frozen peas. But even New Man needs a bit of coaxing and wooing to ensure a dominant position in front of the stove.