He walks through the Leicester Hilton smiling and nodding, dapper in a grey suit, yellow patterned silk shirt and, as he shows me later, two royal-blue cufflinks with a gold D for Diana inscribed on each of them. "She gave them to me," he says, emphasising the "she". "I had many gifts from her but I love these the most - so thoughtful, so careful, so stylish, so her."