Today, however, he is disappointingly normal. He has given up his lunch hour for our interview, opens doors, is utterly polite, if detached. But then Kilmer, 45, is a decade on from that wrung-out, strung-out period when he was battling for inch-by-inch control on movie sets and in bloody combat with his British actress wife (now ex) Joanne Whalley. Their children, now 13 and 10, live with her in LA and spend weekends and holidays with him in his ranch in remote New Mexico.