So she stays alone but settled in the well-concealed West Sussex farmhouse where Beverley used to make homegrown, lethal cider, and in the Fulham townhouse she has kept for 40 years. And she survives not only without Beverley, but also without her thyroid. She suffered for a while from Graves disease and, after surgery, is on medication for life. One big comfort is that Chris, the 40-yearold elder son, is appearing with her in the Albee play. "I had no idea he'd auditioned, and I got the shock of my life when the director, Anthony Page, rang me from New York about it. I hope he's going to be good!" Her second son, Toby, also gave her a shock when he appeared cavorting naked in The Camomile Lawn on television years ago: "I hadn't seen his willy since he was about two!" Both sons are married and both about to be fathers (Chris already is); "Yes, I really am a Granny Smith at last."