Perry grew up in Frederickstown, Ohio, where his father, a violent drunk, worked in a steel mill (his parents later divorced, and it was his mother's new husband who taught him "everything I know about being a man"). At 17, he headed for LA, but the work did not exactly come rolling in. At his lowest point, he lived in a rat-infested motel where he fell ill with spinal meningitis. After he recovered, he spent four years waiting tables until he landed his first job, in the soap Loving. Two years on, he got 90210.