A handsome young chap answers to the description, and suddenly the wife has to grapple with the fact that she has lived seven years with a husband who was often in another man's arms. If it seems far-fetched that any wife - especially a doctor dealing with HIV patients - should remain so immune to the truth, it is to the credit of film-maker Ferzan Ozpetek, the Turkish-born director of Hamam, that he makes it credible by concentrating on the still-closeted status of many homosexual people in Italy - a country that often projects masculine prowess from the safe refuge of Mama's love.