To put it more prosaically, they grew up in Minnesota, went to school together, then split to go to college, Joel to the film programme at NYU, Ethan to Princeton, where he wrote his thesis on Wittgenstein. When not working, they don't necessarily spend all their time together. Joel has been married to Frances McDormand (who won an Oscar for her performance in Fargo) since 1984; the couple have two children, one adopted. Ethan married film editor Tricia Cook in 1993.