The actor James Nesbitt and I are discussing charm, its quality and its definition, over a glass of white wine and a couple of Marlboro lights in a supposedly glamorous bar entirely lacking any other customers, a single ashtray or a hint of ambience. Nesbitt hops from one seat to another like musical chairs, then strides off to find something to squash his fag into, then wraps himself around a too-small barstool. You sense he'd be happier down the East Dulwich Tavern, his local, where I spot him a few nights later, though he warms up after a while.