But when we meet, the casually attired Gere is much more eager to chat about his secret marriage in November to Carey Lowell, a 41-yearold former Bond girl. "She's changed my life," he says simply. "And marriage does have meaning, if you do it from your heart. It is a milestone for us both." They met seven years ago, after Gere's divorce from supermodel Cindy Crawford, and they have a two-year-old son, Homer.