It's moments like this that show while films such as Signs and The Village have turned him into an A-list property, he doesn't behave like one. Neither does he live like one - a product of his hippy upbringing by parents who allowed him to quit school when he was nine to concentrate on his acting. For the most part, he says the paparazzi leave him alone now. 'I don't think I have the lifestyle that is tabloid-worthy in some ways, which is great,' he says.
Certainly Phoenix has kept his head down as far as his relationships have gone of late - so much so that gossip columnists were reduced to suggesting he was dating his We Own The Night co-star Eva Mendes after they were sighted having dinner together.
You'd have to go all the way back to 1997's Inventing The Abbotts, where he met Tyler, to see Phoenix attempting to tout himself as the romantic interest in a film. 'I wouldn't feel satisfied being on set every day doing a romantic comedy - I'd be bored to f**king death,' he says now. 'For me, I'd rather have an intense experience than not.'
Still, Phoenix is currently filming romantic drama Two Lovers, opposite Gwyneth Paltrow. It reunites him with Gray for a third time: expect to see the actor free-falling off that building once more - with or without a parachute.