When does old age begin? In this elegant essay, Penelope Lively points out that, in a survey, “most” people think old age starts at 59, whereas octogenarians put the number at 68. For Lively, it’s 70. Here, she tells us what it feels like, for her at least, to be old. She covers a lot of ground at a clipped pace; her prose, as always, is sprightly. She’s happy not to travel because she has her memories. She’s very good on memory in general. There is the physical decline. But something else “has crept up” — “acceptance”. I loved her discussion of changing attitudes, too. How different sex was before the Pill. It’s thoughtful and inspiring.